I said to my girlfriend Jo, on Saturday night as I sat at her auntie Sue's 50th birthday celebrations, fulminating about the display of football that had unfolded at the Grove that evening, seeing Arsenal lose feels like being dumped. You know? You accept it, then you get angry and upset and then you let it out and you feel better. Until it bubbles up again. Today at work's been a bit like that actually, I thought I'd put the tin lid on it in my blog yesterday, but having tal